As I continue down this wild, fascinating, healing, ever-expanding journey of awakening the divine feminine with women and men through plant medicine journeys and mentorship, I’m always learning, growing, and evolving as well.
I just finished a book that one of my mentees recommended, Masculine in Relationship by GS Youngblood.
t blew me away as I felt my body say, “Yes, yes, yes, he’s putting words to what I’ve been feeling for years but didn’t have the words for.” The author is expressing what we women are longing for, men to be in their sacred masculine so that we women can get out of our overactive masculine energies, relax, and blossom in our divine feminine fully.
With the current ‘false patriarchy’, the women have been programmed and affected in certain ways, and the men too. When men aren’t in their masculine core, the whole society is easier to control and manipulate (the goal of those in power). There is a lot of very subtle subconscious programming to emasculate men in all sorts of ways so that they don’t stand in their powerful, masculine, healthy energies.
Youngblood says to the men, ‘You might not be the problem, but you are the solution.’ Men stepping into their masculine leadership LEAD with clarity, direction, confidence, creating structure, are grounded and solid in their nervous system, respond instead of react, can access their emotions, and are able to connect with their heart, not coming from cognitive thinking for everything.
There are so many women committed to themselves, to do their inner work, which isn’t easy at times, but they are showing up and reaping the benefits.
We are yearning for more men to also start doing their inner work, continuously, not just a one-off.
This is from Youngblood’s homepage:
If your partner frequently nags, criticizes, or tells you she needs more leadership from you, we should talk.
If you label your partner as “acting crazy” when her emotions flare up, we should talk.
If you want to be more powerful in your relationship, less of a pleaser or Nice Guy…we should talk.
And if she’s telling you she doesn’t feel an emotional connection with you…We should talk…and soon. The clock is ticking.
Let’s invite the men to the table to do their part, as many women are, and create the change we desire. Unity of the feminine and masculine will come that much sooner, leaving behind this old paradigm that doesn’t serve anymore.
Youngblood has some great offerings for men.
If you have any more resources about a great coach or healer who’s helping men come into their sacred masculine, please email me so I can share them with clients.
And if you would like to dive in deeper with your spiritual journey, you might like to join us live in Taos for a 2-day Plant Medicine Retreat, December 6-7, or if you’d prefer, a private ceremony. For the ladies, there is the Divine Feminine Reclamation mentorship, discovering your amazing, powerful, nourishing feminine essence and claiming it.
This is a very exciting time as humanity goes through this massive transformation to create the new Earth. Are you going to partake in helping that happen?
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